I've written several times this year, including just the other day, about the importance of using people's names whenever possible. Today I spent a good portion of my day traveling home from Phoenix. As is typically the case with traveling, I came into contact with so many different workers - people at the ticket counter, TSA folks, baggage handlers, flight attendants, workers at the Paradise Cafe where I bought lunch, and the shuttle driver for the offsite parking place, among many others. Any time they were wearing a name tag, I made a point to thank them and wish them a good day, always using their name. A number of times, people gave me a pleased smile, indicating the fact that I used their name had registered with them and made a difference.

It also seems to me that there's even a bigger opportunity to create connections, particularly in the travel industry, when people's name tags also show where they're from. Sometimes I see this with workers at resort golf clubs. When you see where the person is from, and you know something about that place, it's so totally natural to strike up a conversation with them, comparing notes or seeking additional connections you may each have. Even when you don't know anything about the place, their hometown can be a conversation starter, especially if it's somewhere unusual.
I think that it an increasingly impersonal world, most of us relish the chance to feel more connected to each other. Nothing helps this happen more quickly and easily than using each other's names.
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