Wednesday, March 13, 2013
The Extra Step
I was having dinner with someone the other night and our conversation led me to mention a couple of my favorite books on the topic we were discussing. My friend hadn't read the books in question but wrote them down because he was eager to check them out. I believe he was sincere in his desire to read them, though my experience tells me that life has a way of getting in the way of our best intentions.
I also know from experience that I'm more likely to read a book that's been sent to me than one I don't currently own and have to go out and purchase/borrow. So I went ahead and bought the books on Amazon (I do love Amazon) and had them sent to my friend for his enjoyment. Taking that one extra step to send the books, rather than simply mentioning them, can make all the difference in the world.
That whole experience got me thinking about how often there's one little extra step that can make the difference in so many situations. Do we tell someone how to do something or do we actually coach them through doing it? Do we give someone directions or do we lead them to where they need to go? To we utter a simple thanks or do we send a nice, handwritten note? Do we say we should get together sometime, or do we pull out our calendars and make a date? In almost every situation, it seems to me, there is always more that can be done to help. It's an interesting challenge to consider that thought and to take on doing that "extra step."